Hello Everyone. I appreciate you visiting the site and reading my blog; it’s good to see those pretty eyes again
Wow, it’s been such a long time! I defaulted from doing one post a week to once a month, and then, poof, I became a ghost. I’m sorry! Even till now, let me be honest, I’m not even fully back to the rhythm. Because this was supposed to be a birthday post, I moved it to a new month, and now what day is it again? But I guess on the bright side, I should be happy a post came out at the end of the day, right?
Yes, normally I’m supposed to come here with all the sweet details of what has been happening and maybe have a valid reason for why I defaulted, but the basic reason is simple: life.
Living in my country, Nigeria, is not easy, and basically getting through each day takes a lot of energy, especially when I also have to interact with my fellow Nigerians. That’s a whole lot. My work has me drowning; my to-do list is now never-ending, coupled with personal life issues. It was just overwhelming for me. I had to take a break on some things and get a hang of myself before I broke down.
My main reason for even doing the post is just to share with everyone that I’m still alive and doing well; it’s just that adulthood has not been as rosy and sweet as I thought it would be. I realised that it’s actually not about maintaining relationships and trying to get your life in order; you have to pick one. The little friendships I managed to gather during my time of being jovial, I lost them all because I could not keep up, and I tend to shut out once I get extremely stressed. Yes, that’s a bad trait I should learn to communicate and share. Yes, I know I’m working on myself! So yeah, life is what happened to me. I’m just trying to find my bearing in life and get a hang of this whole adulthood thing. It’s not been easy, but I must say I am doing a good job so far.
So what’s been happening with you guys? Feel free to share in the comment section.I’m not making any promises like I would do better or anything like that, but I can say that I would try and get more posts rolling out so at least I can share with you all what’s been going on with me.
One major move I made this year that kind of changed the flow of how my year would go was venturing to live alone. That’s moving out of my family house. I got a lot of people telling me to go back home; it was not going to be easy. Well, looking back now, I’m like, haha, yes, I did it. The journey was not an easy one, trust me. I even know I’m still trying to find my balance, but I can say it’s better now. I can say with my full chest that I did it! This was one major decision that I made that totally cut me off from reality. I was so focused on getting my life in order that I totally forgot about things in the world, like going out, posting on social media, and all that. But then again, it was worth it in the end because I got to achieve my goal and dream. My advice to everyone is to never give up, and you can do anything you want to do so long as you set your heart and are determined. 😂😂😂Oshe Cheenaa is a motivational speaker.😂😂😂
So that’s a quick run-through of what’s been happening. I still have more to share in the coming posts, and I look forward to getting my groove back and rolling out more posts. But until then, thank you for reading up to this point. I really appreciate it.
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